From my research along the years, I have found that most people seem to dig a good cuddle, I mean why not? Two bodies close to each other, it's sweet and can be sexy. It can make you feel small or large (in a good way), it can make you feel safe and loved. That being said, these euphoric feelings generally occur when you are cuddling with someone you like at a time that feels right.
Then there are the people who prematurely request or try to cuddle at the complete wrong times. I am not talking about 16 year old types, I am talking about people who are of legal age and should have some idea about the right timing to cuddle.
I personally like a good cuddle, sometimes. The time and person have to be right and to be perfectly honest, I generally like to cuddle and roll over, maybe a little foot touching...maybe it is because of my past relationships, I don't know, maybe I am full of shit, but for serious, I generally like a lil space, sometimes not. It all depends. Regardless, when the time and the person are right, I am all about cuddling. However, when a dude asks to cuddle before even meeting or right when meeting and not in a joking way, that does not make me want to cuddle, maybe some girls are into that (ladies if you are into that, you might want to reflect on the reasons why you like that) it actually makes me want to run screaming and laughing.
The premature cuddle request sentiment is sweet and all, but really?! Dudes, you really gotta make sure the women are feeling it too, don't push it, be cool and if you aren't cool, at least act cool. Acting cool doesn't mean being a dick, just not totally retarded. Better yet, play a little hard to get, not too hard, just keep your cuddle urges to yourself, until you know the feeling is mutual or even better than that, wait until the mood takes you there...if cuddling is meant to happen, let it happen, if not, well, at least you got the urge to cuddle and didn't prematurely request a cuddle.
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